Help yourself before others help got wasted!

Help yourself before others help got wasted!

People nowadays are getting much frustrated. Frustration is a big issue for any rapidly growing civilization all over the world. One thing we all know that not everyone lives for the same goal but we all have something in common. Sometimes we are confused to separate our common things and goals for the betterment of our life.

Since my university age, I was searching for one solution about the frustration of my life! I was wondering why I am getting too much pressure from different sources, but unable to find any reason at that time. I decided to reach out to my seniors, teachers, dearest and nearest people but they couldn't help! at last, I thought this is common in everyone's life because of society.

After completing my graduation, again I tried but failed. but now I discovered what was the reason actually for that. Yes, now I am going to deliver that secret to you guys so that you can realize, what's going on actually with you in your early stage of life.

Think you are a very responsive person in your family who follow every order from your superior. This is a natural thing because in your early stage you always try to keep your decent attitude everywhere so that everyone like you. Obviously, it is necessary for all stages of your life but the thing is you can't keep it for a long time. so when you pass a specific stage in your life you meet new friends, maybe a new culture or new lifestyle because of circumstance. here the issue is when you are getting familiar with several new things are you updating yourself so that you can adapt with them by managing a healthy balance?

Maybe yes, but for most of us, it's No. If you are in the Yes category you are lucky enough for your upcoming days but if No! Then what?
This is the real problem. We try to maintain everything we face in our life but don't realize that we don't have enough preparation for that. Some people even think that no problem he/she will manage this for me. Never ever think that someone will do something for your life whoever he/she is.

Helping yourself for every possible way is the main key to overcome that situation. Every frustration comes with a solution and to get out from that frustration you need to help yourself first. You have to learn how I can help myself to improve my capacity. Other's help will not improve your any capacity unless you decide to help yourself first.